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Jun
The Way Noise from Another Room Becomes a Kind of Company

The Way Noise from Another Room Becomes a Kind of Company

There is a particular quality to sound that travels through walls. It loses its edges. A television becomes a murmur,
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29
Jun
The Instinct to Match Someone's Pace Without Being Asked

The Instinct to Match Someone's Pace Without Being Asked

There is something that happens in a good conversation — a subtle gear-shift, almost impossible to locate the moment it
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28
Jun
The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

There is a moment, well-known and rarely examined, that happens in restaurants. You have already decided. The pasta, the
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27
Jun
The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

There is a moment in most restaurant visits where the decision has already been made. You knew before you sat
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26
Jun
The Habit of Saving Something Good for Later Until It's Too Late

The Habit of Saving Something Good for Later Until It's Too Late

There is a jar of preserved figs somewhere in someone's kitchen — pushed to the back of a shelf,
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25
Jun
The Way We Treat the Last Page of a Notebook Differently From All the Others

The Way We Treat the Last Page of a Notebook Differently From All the Others

There is something that happens to handwriting on the last page of a notebook. It gets neater. Or stranger. Or
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24
Jun
The Habit of Giving Directions You Are Not Certain Of

The Habit of Giving Directions You Are Not Certain Of

There is a particular confidence that arrives just before the admission of uncertainty — a brief window where a person will
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23
Jun
The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

There is a moment, somewhere between sitting down and ordering, when the decision has already been made. You knew what
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22
Jun
The Habit of Lowering Expectations Just Before Something Good Arrives

The Habit of Lowering Expectations Just Before Something Good Arrives

There is a behavior worth watching closely. In the final hours before something anticipated arrives — a trip, a conversation, a
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21
Jun
The Discomfort of Being Watched Doing Something You Were Just About to Stop Doing

The Discomfort of Being Watched Doing Something You Were Just About to Stop Doing

There is a particular kind of embarrassment that has no clean name. It arrives not when you are caught doing
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