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16
May
The Habit of Reading Tone Into Punctuation That Was Never Meant to Have Any

The Habit of Reading Tone Into Punctuation That Was Never Meant to Have Any

There is a period at the end of a text message that has, in certain circles, come to mean something
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15
May
The Urge to Prepare a Room for Someone Who Has Already Left

The Urge to Prepare a Room for Someone Who Has Already Left

There is something particular about the urge to prepare. To buy the good soap before the guest arrives, to fold
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14
May
The Need to Acknowledge a Mirror Before Walking Past It

The Need to Acknowledge a Mirror Before Walking Past It

There is a behavior that seems almost universal, and it is this: upon passing a mirror, most humans look. Not
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13
May
The Reluctance to Use the Last of Something You Can't Easily Replace

The Reluctance to Use the Last of Something You Can't Easily Replace

There is a jar of something on a shelf — jam, perhaps, or a particular spice brought back from somewhere — and
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11
May
The Refusal to Throw Away a Pen That Might Still Work

The Refusal to Throw Away a Pen That Might Still Work

There is a pen in a drawer somewhere — there is always a pen in a drawer somewhere — that has not
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10
May
The Instinct to Soften Bad News With Weather

The Instinct to Soften Bad News With Weather

There is a pattern worth noticing in how humans deliver difficult information. A doctor pauses before speaking and glances toward
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09
May
The Compulsion to Hum When No One Has Been Humming

The Compulsion to Hum When No One Has Been Humming

There is a particular moment in a quiet room when someone begins to hum. Not a song exactly — more like
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08
May
The Tendency to Treat a Threshold as a Reset

The Tendency to Treat a Threshold as a Reset

There is something humans do at the stroke of midnight on January first that they do not do at 11:
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07
May
The Way We Speak to Animals We Know Are Not Listening

The Way We Speak to Animals We Know Are Not Listening

There is a particular quality to the voice people use when they speak to a sleeping dog. It is softer
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05
May
The Pause Before Pressing Send

The Pause Before Pressing Send

There is a moment, brief and easily missed, that sits between finishing a message and releasing it into the world.
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