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23
Aug
The Habit of Saving Something Good for Later Until It Is No Longer Good

The Habit of Saving Something Good for Later Until It Is No Longer Good

There is a bottle of wine someone was saving for a special occasion. It sat in a cabinet for eleven
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22
Aug
The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

There is a moment in most restaurant visits — perhaps the most honest moment — where the decision has already been made.
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21
Aug
The Compulsion to Reread a Message You've Already Understood

The Compulsion to Reread a Message You've Already Understood

There is a moment, perhaps familiar, where you read a message and understand it completely. The meaning arrives whole. You
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20
Aug
The Compulsion to Taste Something You Already Know You Don't Like

The Compulsion to Taste Something You Already Know You Don't Like

There is a jar of something in most kitchens that never empties. Not because it's beloved, but because
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19
Aug
The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

There is a moment, well-known to anyone who has sat down at a restaurant, where the decision has already
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18
Aug
The Habit of Holding a Door for Someone Who Is Still Too Far Away

The Habit of Holding a Door for Someone Who Is Still Too Far Away

There is a specific distance at which a person stops being a stranger and becomes your responsibility. It happens without
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17
Aug
The Impulse to Match Someone's Pace Without Meaning To

The Impulse to Match Someone's Pace Without Meaning To

There is something that happens when two people walk together for long enough. Without negotiation, without awareness, their strides begin
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16
Aug
The Instinct to Taste Something You Already Know You Don't Like

The Instinct to Taste Something You Already Know You Don't Like

There is a particular human behavior that surfaces at every table, in every kitchen, across what appears to be every
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15
Aug
The Compulsion to Wave Back at Someone Who Was Not Waving at You

The Compulsion to Wave Back at Someone Who Was Not Waving at You

There is a particular kind of embarrassment that arrives before you have time to prepare for it. Someone raises their
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14
Aug
The Compulsion to Taste Something You Already Know You Don't Like

The Compulsion to Taste Something You Already Know You Don't Like

There is a jar of something in most people's refrigerators that they have tasted before, found disagreeable, and
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