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May
The Habit of Wishing Strangers Well as They Walk Away From You

The Habit of Wishing Strangers Well as They Walk Away From You

There is a practice some people have developed, quietly and without announcement, of wishing strangers well as they walk away.
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25
May
The Tendency to Trust a Voice That Speaks Slowly

The Tendency to Trust a Voice That Speaks Slowly

There is something that happens when a voice slows down. The listener leans in. The breath adjusts. Something in the
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24
May
The Reluctance to Begin a Task You Already Know How to Do

The Reluctance to Begin a Task You Already Know How to Do

There is a particular kind of stillness that arrives just before a familiar task. Not the hesitation of someone who
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23
May
The Compulsion to Finish a Book You Stopped Enjoying Long Ago

The Compulsion to Finish a Book You Stopped Enjoying Long Ago

There is a particular kind of stubbornness that emerges somewhere around page 180 of a book you have already stopped
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22
May
The Reluctance to Sit in a Chair Someone Has Just Vacated

The Reluctance to Sit in a Chair Someone Has Just Vacated

There is a chair, still warm. The person who occupied it has just stood — to get coffee, to take a
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21
May
The Compulsion to Read a Message Twice Before Deciding You Understood It the First Time

The Compulsion to Read a Message Twice Before Deciding You Understood It the First Time

There is a particular hesitation that happens after reading a message. Not before, and not during — after. The words have
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20
May
The Urge to Narrate a Journey to Someone Who Wasn't There

The Urge to Narrate a Journey to Someone Who Wasn't There

There is something humans do on the way home. Before they have even arrived, before the bag is set down
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19
May
The Instinct to Tidy Up Before the Cleaner Arrives

The Instinct to Tidy Up Before the Cleaner Arrives

There is a behavior, common enough to be unremarkable, in which a person spends thirty minutes cleaning their home before
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18
May
The Tendency to Soften a Refusal by Pretending You Lack the Ability Rather Than the Willingness

The Tendency to Soften a Refusal by Pretending You Lack the Ability Rather Than the Willingness

There is a small dishonesty that hides inside politeness. It goes like this: someone asks for something you won'
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17
May
The Impulse to Warn Someone About a Film You Have Already Ruined

The Impulse to Warn Someone About a Film You Have Already Ruined

There is a particular kind of person who, midway through describing a film to you, will pause and say: "
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