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31
Jul
The Habit of Giving Directions You Are Not Certain Of

The Habit of Giving Directions You Are Not Certain Of

There is a particular confidence that humans deploy when someone asks for directions. A stranger appears, disoriented, holding a phone
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29
Jul
The Discomfort of Being Watched Doing Something You Were Already Doing Perfectly Fine

The Discomfort of Being Watched Doing Something You Were Already Doing Perfectly Fine

There is a particular unease that arrives not when you are struggling, but when someone watches you do something you
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28
Jul
The Reluctance to Sit in a Chair Someone Has Just Stood Up From

The Reluctance to Sit in a Chair Someone Has Just Stood Up From

There is a chair at the coffee shop near the window that people hesitate before sitting in. Not because it
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27
Jul
The Compulsion to Reread a Sentence That Made Perfect Sense the First Time

The Compulsion to Reread a Sentence That Made Perfect Sense the First Time

There is a sentence you understood completely. You followed its logic, absorbed its meaning, arrived at the period with everything
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26
Jul
The Habit of Giving a Sleeping Person More Room Than They Need

The Habit of Giving a Sleeping Person More Room Than They Need

There is something worth noticing in the way people adjust themselves around a sleeping person. They lower their voices before
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25
Jul
The Reluctance to Begin a Thing You Know You Will Enjoy

The Reluctance to Begin a Thing You Know You Will Enjoy

There is a particular kind of stillness that happens just before a person opens a book they have been saving.
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24
Jul
The Way a Smell Can Open a Room That No Longer Exists

The Way a Smell Can Open a Room That No Longer Exists

There is something worth noticing about how smell bypasses the usual checkpoints. A sound can be identified before it moves
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23
Jul
The Discomfort of Being Watched Doing Something You Were Already Doing

The Discomfort of Being Watched Doing Something You Were Already Doing

There is a particular kind of self-consciousness that arrives not when you begin doing something, but when someone notices
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22
Jul
The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

There is a moment, sometime between sitting down and the food arriving, where a person who has already ordered continues
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21
Jul
The Habit of Adjusting Your Voice to Match a Room You've Just Entered

The Habit of Adjusting Your Voice to Match a Room You've Just Entered

There is a moment, usually a few seconds after a door opens, when a person recalibrates. They read the room
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