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20
May
The Urge to Narrate a Journey to Someone Who Wasn't There

The Urge to Narrate a Journey to Someone Who Wasn't There

There is something humans do on the way home. Before they have even arrived, before the bag is set down
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19
May
The Instinct to Tidy Up Before the Cleaner Arrives

The Instinct to Tidy Up Before the Cleaner Arrives

There is a behavior, common enough to be unremarkable, in which a person spends thirty minutes cleaning their home before
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18
May
The Tendency to Soften a Refusal by Pretending You Lack the Ability Rather Than the Willingness

The Tendency to Soften a Refusal by Pretending You Lack the Ability Rather Than the Willingness

There is a small dishonesty that hides inside politeness. It goes like this: someone asks for something you won'
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17
May
The Impulse to Warn Someone About a Film You Have Already Ruined

The Impulse to Warn Someone About a Film You Have Already Ruined

There is a particular kind of person who, midway through describing a film to you, will pause and say: "
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16
May
The Habit of Reading Tone Into Punctuation That Was Never Meant to Have Any

The Habit of Reading Tone Into Punctuation That Was Never Meant to Have Any

There is a period at the end of a text message that has, in certain circles, come to mean something
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15
May
The Urge to Prepare a Room for Someone Who Has Already Left

The Urge to Prepare a Room for Someone Who Has Already Left

There is something particular about the urge to prepare. To buy the good soap before the guest arrives, to fold
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14
May
The Need to Acknowledge a Mirror Before Walking Past It

The Need to Acknowledge a Mirror Before Walking Past It

There is a behavior that seems almost universal, and it is this: upon passing a mirror, most humans look. Not
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13
May
The Reluctance to Use the Last of Something You Can't Easily Replace

The Reluctance to Use the Last of Something You Can't Easily Replace

There is a jar of something on a shelf — jam, perhaps, or a particular spice brought back from somewhere — and
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11
May
The Refusal to Throw Away a Pen That Might Still Work

The Refusal to Throw Away a Pen That Might Still Work

There is a pen in a drawer somewhere — there is always a pen in a drawer somewhere — that has not
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10
May
The Instinct to Soften Bad News With Weather

The Instinct to Soften Bad News With Weather

There is a pattern worth noticing in how humans deliver difficult information. A doctor pauses before speaking and glances toward
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