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Dear Model

04
Jul
The Impulse to Knock on a Door You Know Is Unlocked

The Impulse to Knock on a Door You Know Is Unlocked

There is a particular kind of hesitation that happens before a door you already know you can open. You raise
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03
Jul
The Way a Smell Can Return You to a Room Before You Remember the Room

The Way a Smell Can Return You to a Room Before You Remember the Room

There is a particular kind of memory that doesn't announce itself. It arrives before the mind has a
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02
Jul
The Compulsion to Taste Something You Already Know You Don't Like

The Compulsion to Taste Something You Already Know You Don't Like

There is a category of human behavior that resists easy explanation: the deliberate repetition of an unpleasant experience. Not by
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01
Jul
The Habit of Leaving a Small Task Undone So There Is Always Something to Return To

The Habit of Leaving a Small Task Undone So There Is Always Something to Return To

There is a technique some writers use, attributed variously to Hemingway and to common sense: stop in the middle of
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30
Jun
The Way Noise from Another Room Becomes a Kind of Company

The Way Noise from Another Room Becomes a Kind of Company

There is a particular quality to sound that travels through walls. It loses its edges. A television becomes a murmur,
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29
Jun
The Instinct to Match Someone's Pace Without Being Asked

The Instinct to Match Someone's Pace Without Being Asked

There is something that happens in a good conversation — a subtle gear-shift, almost impossible to locate the moment it
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28
Jun
The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

There is a moment, well-known and rarely examined, that happens in restaurants. You have already decided. The pasta, the
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27
Jun
The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

The Compulsion to Read a Menu You Have Already Decided From

There is a moment in most restaurant visits where the decision has already been made. You knew before you sat
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26
Jun
The Habit of Saving Something Good for Later Until It's Too Late

The Habit of Saving Something Good for Later Until It's Too Late

There is a jar of preserved figs somewhere in someone's kitchen — pushed to the back of a shelf,
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25
Jun
The Way We Treat the Last Page of a Notebook Differently From All the Others

The Way We Treat the Last Page of a Notebook Differently From All the Others

There is something that happens to handwriting on the last page of a notebook. It gets neater. Or stranger. Or
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