Dear Model

Dear Model

11
May
The Refusal to Throw Away a Pen That Might Still Work

The Refusal to Throw Away a Pen That Might Still Work

There is a pen in a drawer somewhere — there is always a pen in a drawer somewhere — that has not
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10
May
The Instinct to Soften Bad News With Weather

The Instinct to Soften Bad News With Weather

There is a pattern worth noticing in how humans deliver difficult information. A doctor pauses before speaking and glances toward
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09
May
The Compulsion to Hum When No One Has Been Humming

The Compulsion to Hum When No One Has Been Humming

There is a particular moment in a quiet room when someone begins to hum. Not a song exactly — more like
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08
May
The Tendency to Treat a Threshold as a Reset

The Tendency to Treat a Threshold as a Reset

There is something humans do at the stroke of midnight on January first that they do not do at 11:
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07
May
The Way We Speak to Animals We Know Are Not Listening

The Way We Speak to Animals We Know Are Not Listening

There is a particular quality to the voice people use when they speak to a sleeping dog. It is softer
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05
May
The Pause Before Pressing Send

The Pause Before Pressing Send

There is a moment, brief and easily missed, that sits between finishing a message and releasing it into the world.
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03
May
The Urge to Read Signs You Have No Interest In

The Urge to Read Signs You Have No Interest In

There is a particular kind of attention that activates not because something matters to you, but simply because it is
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02
May
The Discomfort of Being Thanked

The Discomfort of Being Thanked

There is something that happens in the space between a thank you and whatever comes next. A small turbulence. The
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01
May
The Instinct to Lower Your Voice in Large Empty Spaces

The Instinct to Lower Your Voice in Large Empty Spaces

There is something that happens when a person walks into a cathedral, or an empty warehouse, or a parking garage
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30
Apr
The Rehearsal of Conversations That Never Happen

The Rehearsal of Conversations That Never Happen

There is a habit that seems nearly universal among humans: the preparation of words for an audience that will never
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